It's getting closer and closer to June and I'm practically jumping up and down with anticipation. No one understands it but me......ColossalCon is the only thing I really have to look forward to all year. Year round, it's hard to hang out with friends because we're all working and very few of us drive. ColossalCon is the one time of year where we all get together for this epic three day party....*cough* I mean, anime convention. I updated my wish list again. I added a bunch of our party necessities, like a pong table, cups, balls, etc. I also added some blacklights and blacklight reactive stuff. I'm going all out this year. I wanted to add alcohol to the list but unfortunately Amazon does not allow the shipment of alcohol...I guess the 15 year old alcoholics put a stop to that lol. Oh well. I guess I'll just need to pull together some cash and get my of-age friends to buy me what I need....*sigh* 319 days until I'm legal and do shit on my own.
Let's party ;)
Wicked Mistress, Spoiled Princess, Sexy Cam Girl...come play with me ;)
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
Monday, February 27, 2012
The Right Way To Complete An Assignment
I really don't understand what is so complicated about doing what I ask. If you're in my program, you've seen this message from me "Week 1's task is a simple Writing Assignment - Why do you think you are worthy enough to serve me? What do you like about being dominated? What tasks to you hope to perform while under my wing? Be as specific as possible. You have one week to complete & submit the assignment, as well as send the required weekly tribute. Any questions?"
I give you a week to complete this because I don't want some bullshitted paragraph that can be completed in five minutes. While some assignments I've gotten within a day were substancial, the ones that have more time and effort put into them were better.
This morning started off with a sub messaging me, telling me he hadn't heard from me and blah blah blah. I explained to him that in the application he filled out, it stated that he needed to contact me to receive his tasks. He asked for the first task, so I gave it to him.
Within five minutes, I got an email from him - a OBVIOUSLY copied & pasted essay on what he thinks slavery is, as well as a list of BDSM kinks (the list used on FetLife), classifying them as a limit or something he has experience with.
Nothing I asked for was covered in this waste-of-time message. I messaged him back and called him out on it, as well as blocked him. I don't have time for subs who think they can get by on the bare minimum. I mean, what? Do you guys think I don't read over your assignments to make sure you're doing them right? I wouldn't waste my time giving out assignments if I didn't want them done right. *Sigh*
I give you a week to complete this because I don't want some bullshitted paragraph that can be completed in five minutes. While some assignments I've gotten within a day were substancial, the ones that have more time and effort put into them were better.
This morning started off with a sub messaging me, telling me he hadn't heard from me and blah blah blah. I explained to him that in the application he filled out, it stated that he needed to contact me to receive his tasks. He asked for the first task, so I gave it to him.
Within five minutes, I got an email from him - a OBVIOUSLY copied & pasted essay on what he thinks slavery is, as well as a list of BDSM kinks (the list used on FetLife), classifying them as a limit or something he has experience with.
Nothing I asked for was covered in this waste-of-time message. I messaged him back and called him out on it, as well as blocked him. I don't have time for subs who think they can get by on the bare minimum. I mean, what? Do you guys think I don't read over your assignments to make sure you're doing them right? I wouldn't waste my time giving out assignments if I didn't want them done right. *Sigh*
Saturday, February 25, 2012
Totally Surprised
I'm so excited. I was orginally gonna post something short about how I'm sorry I haven't written because I've been so busy between RT Sessions & vanilla junk. I was gonna say how I recieved one of my cosplay items in the mail today....I was going to post the Amazon image of it, but when I when to grab the image from my "Purchased" list, I noticed that each of my wishists have about 17 purchased items.....I'm very skeptical. At first I was thinking it was legit, but then when I looked at my shoes list and each pair costs like $70, and so many were purchased? I'm highly doubtful.
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Elfen Lied
June is quickly approaching, which means it's time to start working on this year's cosplay. After much consideration and indecision, I've finally decided to go with Lucy/Nyu from Elfen Lied....
As for the red ribbon, the purple ribbons, and the pink contacts, I've got those covered....as for everything else, I'm looking for my subs' help in collecting the materials I need. I've found the following on Amazon and have added them to my "Rave & Anime Conventions" wish list. [Obviously I would be cutting the wig lol]
Help me out? Thanks =)
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
The Scammers Just Don't Stop
So this afternoon I recieved a message from this fake Ohio profile - fake, meaning he only had one image, and the image was grainy - the biggest give away of stolen pics.....
"I just came from filing a report about your blog. You used a pic of me and said you took the pic... You took it, but you stole it from a profile at FET. The one under the heading so appropriately titled "GREEDY BITCHES." That is a pic of MY dick and I can and will prove it to anyone it takes tot get it off your blog. The report is a crock of shit too, I stopped because all the BS they want to cover and it was taking to much time. But' Ill go back and fill it out and deal with the shit if you don't delete the pic today. I don't need to hear from you or take this any further if you simply delete the pic now."
Oh, you don't need to hear from me, you just want to start a shitload of drama? Riiight. Not only was the picture (along with many others that day) taken with Princess Tay's camera, but Princess Tay, myself, Miss Amanda, AND the sub who was in the pic were all there - we can all vouch that this guy is an idiot. The picture is of him? Um no, the picture is of a sub from New Jersey who was in town on business and wanted to serve us in RT after serving us online for 7 months. I want to say this before I get on with the rest of this pointless conversation - before I starting tagging my pictures with my site name, do you know how many times I've had MY pictures stolen? Picture collectors are everywhere. If you don't take the appropriate actions to proctect yourself and your pics, you will fall victim to one of these lowlifes. [And btw, I've already talked to the NJ sub in the pic. He's laughing his ass off at this moron.]
My response:
"Excuse me? Yeah ok, you're delusional. Myself, two of my friends, AND THE SUB WHO IS IN THAT PIC, will all verify that that picture is not of you. We took thhat picture during one of our sessions."
His response:
"I will suggest you go back and look again. I HAVE ALL the pictures we took that day... by the way was LAST January. If the picture is not removed by tomorrow I will follow through...Under US law, copyright of a photograph is owned by the photographer unless the photographer took the photo as part of his responsibilities as an employee (in which case the image belongs to the employer) or the photographer entered into a written agreement to transfer the rights to the photograph to someone else. You are none of the above. This is so simple, you or someone else took my picture, you don't have my permission to post it, take it down or I will prove with many more pictures and testimony that their were TWO people in that room and you were not one of them, you may have stolen the "cropped" picture, but I have the full pic and many more to prove you are in the wrong. Delete the pic and you will not have to start your blog over again when they kick you off. Delete the pic and move on."
My response:
"Honey, you lost, I won, get over it. There were 4 of us in the room that day - myself, 2 other Dommes, and the sub from New Jersey that was in the picture. The pictures we took that day are all on my friend's camera. You want to start with copyright bullshit? Ok. So if you have proof then you have the copyright registration for that photo? I highly doubt it."
His response:
"You may be thinking of a different picture, I am talking about the one with 4 clips on my cock with my Mistress' feet on my legs. I will not write you again, if the pic is not removed I will take action. You have chosen to take this in this direction."
My response:
"I know what picture you're talking about, but it's certainly not your picture. Take action if you want, you're just wasting your time."
I blocked him and removed the goddamn picture. I should just leave it up, because I know who is hiding behind that profile. Does anyone remember me talking about akshayslave? The idiot sub who put his real name on an Amazon gift card and demanded I take the printscreen down or else I would face legal matters and he would have my blog removed? Mmhmm....
You idiots really need to get a life. If you don't like my blog, or the pictures I post, or what I do, just fucking ignore me. Don't make up these bullshit stories and try to get my blog removed because it will never happen. I don't break any of Blogger's TOS agreements. The pictures I post and are obviously amature (ie, not like the gifs or the pro images taken from GettyImages or Photobucket seen here and here) ARE OUR IMAGES - and by our, I must specify that I mean myself, Miss Amanda, or Princess Tay.
For cases like this I always have subs that can vouch for me, that have met me face to face, that are willing to tell you how I run my shit. Let me know and I'll send them your way.
"I just came from filing a report about your blog. You used a pic of me and said you took the pic... You took it, but you stole it from a profile at FET. The one under the heading so appropriately titled "GREEDY BITCHES." That is a pic of MY dick and I can and will prove it to anyone it takes tot get it off your blog. The report is a crock of shit too, I stopped because all the BS they want to cover and it was taking to much time. But' Ill go back and fill it out and deal with the shit if you don't delete the pic today. I don't need to hear from you or take this any further if you simply delete the pic now."
Oh, you don't need to hear from me, you just want to start a shitload of drama? Riiight. Not only was the picture (along with many others that day) taken with Princess Tay's camera, but Princess Tay, myself, Miss Amanda, AND the sub who was in the pic were all there - we can all vouch that this guy is an idiot. The picture is of him? Um no, the picture is of a sub from New Jersey who was in town on business and wanted to serve us in RT after serving us online for 7 months. I want to say this before I get on with the rest of this pointless conversation - before I starting tagging my pictures with my site name, do you know how many times I've had MY pictures stolen? Picture collectors are everywhere. If you don't take the appropriate actions to proctect yourself and your pics, you will fall victim to one of these lowlifes. [And btw, I've already talked to the NJ sub in the pic. He's laughing his ass off at this moron.]
My response:
"Excuse me? Yeah ok, you're delusional. Myself, two of my friends, AND THE SUB WHO IS IN THAT PIC, will all verify that that picture is not of you. We took thhat picture during one of our sessions."
His response:
"I will suggest you go back and look again. I HAVE ALL the pictures we took that day... by the way was LAST January. If the picture is not removed by tomorrow I will follow through...Under US law, copyright of a photograph is owned by the photographer unless the photographer took the photo as part of his responsibilities as an employee (in which case the image belongs to the employer) or the photographer entered into a written agreement to transfer the rights to the photograph to someone else. You are none of the above. This is so simple, you or someone else took my picture, you don't have my permission to post it, take it down or I will prove with many more pictures and testimony that their were TWO people in that room and you were not one of them, you may have stolen the "cropped" picture, but I have the full pic and many more to prove you are in the wrong. Delete the pic and you will not have to start your blog over again when they kick you off. Delete the pic and move on."
My response:
"Honey, you lost, I won, get over it. There were 4 of us in the room that day - myself, 2 other Dommes, and the sub from New Jersey that was in the picture. The pictures we took that day are all on my friend's camera. You want to start with copyright bullshit? Ok. So if you have proof then you have the copyright registration for that photo? I highly doubt it."
His response:
"You may be thinking of a different picture, I am talking about the one with 4 clips on my cock with my Mistress' feet on my legs. I will not write you again, if the pic is not removed I will take action. You have chosen to take this in this direction."
My response:
"I know what picture you're talking about, but it's certainly not your picture. Take action if you want, you're just wasting your time."
I blocked him and removed the goddamn picture. I should just leave it up, because I know who is hiding behind that profile. Does anyone remember me talking about akshayslave? The idiot sub who put his real name on an Amazon gift card and demanded I take the printscreen down or else I would face legal matters and he would have my blog removed? Mmhmm....
You idiots really need to get a life. If you don't like my blog, or the pictures I post, or what I do, just fucking ignore me. Don't make up these bullshit stories and try to get my blog removed because it will never happen. I don't break any of Blogger's TOS agreements. The pictures I post and are obviously amature (ie, not like the gifs or the pro images taken from GettyImages or Photobucket seen here and here) ARE OUR IMAGES - and by our, I must specify that I mean myself, Miss Amanda, or Princess Tay.
For cases like this I always have subs that can vouch for me, that have met me face to face, that are willing to tell you how I run my shit. Let me know and I'll send them your way.
Another Picture Challenge
Since Princess Tay has decided to do a picture challenge, I decided to start my own. The last picture challenge I did kinda fizzled out....I don't blame you guys - who wants to pay to see an obese high school student? I wouldn't.
So here's how this works. The first 10 people to send me DECENT sized Amazon gift cards (decent meaning nothing under $100) will recieve one special pic of me that no one else will ever see. The bigger the tribute, the more revealing the pic will be. Let's have some fun =)
::UPDATE:: I've been getting asked how much for a certain type of pic....so here you go....
$100 - Bra & Panty, Hands Covering Tits, Ass Bent Over (clothed)
$200 - Nude Tits
$300 - Nude Ass
$400 - Nude Pussy
$500 - Full Length Nude
So here's how this works. The first 10 people to send me DECENT sized Amazon gift cards (decent meaning nothing under $100) will recieve one special pic of me that no one else will ever see. The bigger the tribute, the more revealing the pic will be. Let's have some fun =)
::UPDATE:: I've been getting asked how much for a certain type of pic....so here you go....
$100 - Bra & Panty, Hands Covering Tits, Ass Bent Over (clothed)
$200 - Nude Tits
$300 - Nude Ass
$400 - Nude Pussy
$500 - Full Length Nude
Subs On Blast
Well Amanda & Taylor just left, so it's time to do my daily rant. I've got two subs to put on blast tonight.
The first is trivium142. He first requested an application, which was sent to him on January 20th. I heard nothing from him since...until tonight. "Mistress K, I would like to serve you. I am 28 and teach part time at Kent State University. Could you please send me your training application? To show you my seriousness, I am sending a $100 Amazon gift card. I look forward to serving you. You are beautiful." Sounds legit right? Well, besides me having already sent him the application a month ago. So before I sent it again, I went to apply the gift card to my account...only to find that the card had already been applied to someone else's account. Lol scammers.
The next scammer *cough* I mean, sub, is someone whom I thought was some random dipshit who emailed my Yahoo account (silly boys, you already know to contact me on CollarMe). "hi mistress." Well we all know how much I just love meaningless conversations....NOT! So I messaged him back...."Who is this?" A simple question, right? I guess not. "Just someone that wants to play and kiss your ass (both litterally and figuratively) and kneel before you." Wrong answer....."Riiiight. Well since you can't be honest with your answer, you're being ignored. Goodbye." Of course he had to email back...."Please Princess please I beg of you." Begging gets you nowhere with me, haven't you learned this by now? "Absolutely not. My subs are completely 100% honest with me. You can't even tell me who you are or how you got my email. Conversation over." Well of course the nonsense had to kick in. "My name is Steve. Oh, and some jackass wrote your email address in the bathroom of Strongsville Mall."
How to tell this is completely bogus? 1) I have my email address posted in at least six different places on my blog. 2) No one who goes to "Strongsville Mall" would call it that. It's South Park (oh and btw, if you're such a nice person, why would you listen to some "jackass"? Doesn't make sense) And 3) Luckily for me, I keep a record of who I send applications to - their CM user name, the date I sent the app, if they sent it back, and their email address. Turns out I already sent this loser an application on the 30th - Ikneelb4her8080........Logic goes a long way my friend.
Now if I wanted to please my inner brat, I would post his email address and have people spam him, but I'll be nice tonight. OHHH, and btw, "Steve", you probably shouldn't use your email address for bdsm activities when it's connected to your Facebook account lol! *Facepalm*! Such a good night. I don't know why more people don't get involved in BDSM...the drama attached to it is so entertaining.
The first is trivium142. He first requested an application, which was sent to him on January 20th. I heard nothing from him since...until tonight. "Mistress K, I would like to serve you. I am 28 and teach part time at Kent State University. Could you please send me your training application? To show you my seriousness, I am sending a $100 Amazon gift card. I look forward to serving you. You are beautiful." Sounds legit right? Well, besides me having already sent him the application a month ago. So before I sent it again, I went to apply the gift card to my account...only to find that the card had already been applied to someone else's account. Lol scammers.
The next scammer *cough* I mean, sub, is someone whom I thought was some random dipshit who emailed my Yahoo account (silly boys, you already know to contact me on CollarMe). "hi mistress." Well we all know how much I just love meaningless conversations....NOT! So I messaged him back...."Who is this?" A simple question, right? I guess not. "Just someone that wants to play and kiss your ass (both litterally and figuratively) and kneel before you." Wrong answer....."Riiiight. Well since you can't be honest with your answer, you're being ignored. Goodbye." Of course he had to email back...."Please Princess please I beg of you." Begging gets you nowhere with me, haven't you learned this by now? "Absolutely not. My subs are completely 100% honest with me. You can't even tell me who you are or how you got my email. Conversation over." Well of course the nonsense had to kick in. "My name is Steve. Oh, and some jackass wrote your email address in the bathroom of Strongsville Mall."
How to tell this is completely bogus? 1) I have my email address posted in at least six different places on my blog. 2) No one who goes to "Strongsville Mall" would call it that. It's South Park (oh and btw, if you're such a nice person, why would you listen to some "jackass"? Doesn't make sense) And 3) Luckily for me, I keep a record of who I send applications to - their CM user name, the date I sent the app, if they sent it back, and their email address. Turns out I already sent this loser an application on the 30th - Ikneelb4her8080........Logic goes a long way my friend.
Now if I wanted to please my inner brat, I would post his email address and have people spam him, but I'll be nice tonight. OHHH, and btw, "Steve", you probably shouldn't use your email address for bdsm activities when it's connected to your Facebook account lol! *Facepalm*! Such a good night. I don't know why more people don't get involved in BDSM...the drama attached to it is so entertaining.
Monday, February 20, 2012
New Picture Challenge!!!
You should know that it's always gonna be a good time when I'm involved :D So I've been thinking about this a lot lately - I think I'm gonna post a nude pic of me. I think I deserve it now that I've been on this work out program for about a month now. Actually, it will be two pics, and I'll explain what they are so you have a bit more of an incentive hehe.
So, Miss Amanda (<3) and I went over to Mistress K's house this morning to help her with some homework (aka, played with her new Wii haha). Well I was raiding her closet like I usually do and I found that pink plaid skirt she just bought. Well I tried it on, which I should not have done in front of Miss Amanda, because it ended up turning her on completely. Well luckily Mistress K's grandparents weren't home because it got kinda hot in the spare room. I don't know why it always turns into an orgy when the three of us get together. (Don't get too excited, Mistress K just watches.)
Picture #1 is me on the bed, on my hands and knees, with nothing on except the skirt. You get a full view of my ass and pussy.
Picture #2 is an extreme close up of Miss Amanda licking my clit, with two fingers in my pussy.
I'll post the pics when I get $300 worth of Amazon Gift Cards. My email is cowgirlcutie93@yahoo.com. Ready? Set? GO!!!!!
Love always,
Princess Tay
So, Miss Amanda (<3) and I went over to Mistress K's house this morning to help her with some homework (aka, played with her new Wii haha). Well I was raiding her closet like I usually do and I found that pink plaid skirt she just bought. Well I tried it on, which I should not have done in front of Miss Amanda, because it ended up turning her on completely. Well luckily Mistress K's grandparents weren't home because it got kinda hot in the spare room. I don't know why it always turns into an orgy when the three of us get together. (Don't get too excited, Mistress K just watches.)
Picture #1 is me on the bed, on my hands and knees, with nothing on except the skirt. You get a full view of my ass and pussy.
Picture #2 is an extreme close up of Miss Amanda licking my clit, with two fingers in my pussy.
I'll post the pics when I get $300 worth of Amazon Gift Cards. My email is cowgirlcutie93@yahoo.com. Ready? Set? GO!!!!!
Love always,
Princess Tay
Sunday, February 19, 2012
Waking Up To Awesomeness
Well this morning has just been fabulous. I got to have cold pizza for breakfast (my favorite), and then, my doorbell went off. UPS (who I wasn't even aware delivered on Sundays O_o) dropped off the Wii & some of the games I've been wanting for a long time. I'm glad some of you aren't neglecting my wish list. Speaking of which, I was informed last night that the link on the side that takes you to my wish list was broken. I wish someone would have mentioned it sooner, but I fixed it and it is now fully functional. So I'm off to play some games. I'll add some more Wii games to my wish list later. Bye! =D
Saturday, February 18, 2012
Financial Domination
So I know I haven't written in a few days, I've been trying to catch up on some homework and complete some assignments ahead of time so I'll have more time to respond to messages and such. Today's post is obviously going to be about Financial Domination. I get messages about this a lot – from newbies, from experienced money slaves, and unfortunately from the numerous people against Financial Domination. I decided to do a post about it, to give more insight into this popular, (as well as frowned upon) kink.
Financial Domination (also referred to as money slavery, wallet raping, etc.) is a kink in the practice of D/s, where the submissive (or money slave, pay pig, human ATM, cash cow) will give gifts of money to a Financial Domme. It is brought on by the need to be controlled in any and every way possible. The relationship between the sub and Mistress typically is online only, but it’s not uncommon that the sub accompanies his Mistress while she is shopping and pays with their money. True Financial Domination means that the sub tributes money of their own volition without expecting anything in return. Many financial slaves tribute on a weekly or daily basis, as well as buy their Mistress gifts whenever told to, or whenever they feel it necessary. Often, a financial slave will take it upon themselves to adopt their Mistress’s bill, which they will pay faithfully every month for her. Financial Domination is (arguably) the highest form of TPE. In some cases of FinDom, the submissive may grant all their money saved and earned to their dominant, in addition to their independence. FinDom is sometimes also accompanied with the Sugar Daddy/Sugar baby relationships, where the sub may spend gifts and money to “their” girl, without explicit elements of female domination. Financial Domination stems from a devotion of financial slavery, or to be dominated in a financial way. Many Pro-Dommes found this to be a natural extension, since they are already being paid for fetish services. The financial slave desires for his Goddess or Mistress to live like a Princess or a Queen, while they themselves are often forced to make financial sacrifices. The financial slaves truly see their Mistress as a Princess or Goddess and worship them as such. Sometimes Financial Domination is paired with the blackmail fetish. Blackmail brings the slave deeper into their submission by forcing them to obey and tribute his Mistress, or bear the consequences of his blackmail information and/or pictures being posted by her. Often there is a blackmail contract involved, since blackmail is a potential legal hazard for the Mistress unless all bases are covered.
Often I’ll get called a prostitute, a cam girl, a phone sex operator, and even a gold digger. I’m none of these things. Prostitutes get paid to have sex (oral, anal vaginal, or a combination of all three) – The only time I meet up with my subs are for RT Sessions and they do not have sexual contact with me. Cam Girl – If no one has noticed, I only do ignore cam sessions (in which I am fully clothed in jeans & a t-shirt). Sometimes I will have my subs perform tasks on cam, but I never turn my cam on for that. Phone Sex Operator – So because I have a NiteFlirt account, that automatically means phone sex? Wrong. That too, I use as an ignore line. The main reason I use it is for tribute purposes. And finally, gold digger – Since apparently no one uses a dictionary, here’s the definition of a gold digger: “a person who uses charm to extract money or gifts from others.” I don’t “use charm” or anything like that. I am me, that’s it. I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not or act a certain way to impress people. I also form a bond with my subs. We work together for over a year, so it’s not like it’s grab & go with their money. I appreciate my subs and everything they do for me.
There are two final points I’d like to make. A lot of people consider Financial Domination abuse. It’s really not. I like to think of my subs as something I own (technically that’s what they are anyway). For example, a pair of sunglasses – If I like my sunglasses, I’m not going to abuse them by leaving them lying around where they could get scratched or broken. I’m going to take care of them – clean the lenses, put them in a safe spot, etc. Finally, has anyone noticed how many timewasters and fakes there are on CollarMe? Financial Domination is one way to weed out the fakes. A sub can message me saying “Oh yes Mistress K, I will send you a gift card right away so we can begin my training.” I won’t hear from them again. You cannot fake Financial Domination. Granted if done through PayPal (the devil lol), you can dispute the claims, but you’ll just end up with one pissed off Domme.
Hopefully this opens the eyes of a lot of the haters, and provide some information to those curious and confused.
Financial Domination (also referred to as money slavery, wallet raping, etc.) is a kink in the practice of D/s, where the submissive (or money slave, pay pig, human ATM, cash cow) will give gifts of money to a Financial Domme. It is brought on by the need to be controlled in any and every way possible. The relationship between the sub and Mistress typically is online only, but it’s not uncommon that the sub accompanies his Mistress while she is shopping and pays with their money. True Financial Domination means that the sub tributes money of their own volition without expecting anything in return. Many financial slaves tribute on a weekly or daily basis, as well as buy their Mistress gifts whenever told to, or whenever they feel it necessary. Often, a financial slave will take it upon themselves to adopt their Mistress’s bill, which they will pay faithfully every month for her. Financial Domination is (arguably) the highest form of TPE. In some cases of FinDom, the submissive may grant all their money saved and earned to their dominant, in addition to their independence. FinDom is sometimes also accompanied with the Sugar Daddy/Sugar baby relationships, where the sub may spend gifts and money to “their” girl, without explicit elements of female domination. Financial Domination stems from a devotion of financial slavery, or to be dominated in a financial way. Many Pro-Dommes found this to be a natural extension, since they are already being paid for fetish services. The financial slave desires for his Goddess or Mistress to live like a Princess or a Queen, while they themselves are often forced to make financial sacrifices. The financial slaves truly see their Mistress as a Princess or Goddess and worship them as such. Sometimes Financial Domination is paired with the blackmail fetish. Blackmail brings the slave deeper into their submission by forcing them to obey and tribute his Mistress, or bear the consequences of his blackmail information and/or pictures being posted by her. Often there is a blackmail contract involved, since blackmail is a potential legal hazard for the Mistress unless all bases are covered.
Often I’ll get called a prostitute, a cam girl, a phone sex operator, and even a gold digger. I’m none of these things. Prostitutes get paid to have sex (oral, anal vaginal, or a combination of all three) – The only time I meet up with my subs are for RT Sessions and they do not have sexual contact with me. Cam Girl – If no one has noticed, I only do ignore cam sessions (in which I am fully clothed in jeans & a t-shirt). Sometimes I will have my subs perform tasks on cam, but I never turn my cam on for that. Phone Sex Operator – So because I have a NiteFlirt account, that automatically means phone sex? Wrong. That too, I use as an ignore line. The main reason I use it is for tribute purposes. And finally, gold digger – Since apparently no one uses a dictionary, here’s the definition of a gold digger: “a person who uses charm to extract money or gifts from others.” I don’t “use charm” or anything like that. I am me, that’s it. I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not or act a certain way to impress people. I also form a bond with my subs. We work together for over a year, so it’s not like it’s grab & go with their money. I appreciate my subs and everything they do for me.
There are two final points I’d like to make. A lot of people consider Financial Domination abuse. It’s really not. I like to think of my subs as something I own (technically that’s what they are anyway). For example, a pair of sunglasses – If I like my sunglasses, I’m not going to abuse them by leaving them lying around where they could get scratched or broken. I’m going to take care of them – clean the lenses, put them in a safe spot, etc. Finally, has anyone noticed how many timewasters and fakes there are on CollarMe? Financial Domination is one way to weed out the fakes. A sub can message me saying “Oh yes Mistress K, I will send you a gift card right away so we can begin my training.” I won’t hear from them again. You cannot fake Financial Domination. Granted if done through PayPal (the devil lol), you can dispute the claims, but you’ll just end up with one pissed off Domme.
Hopefully this opens the eyes of a lot of the haters, and provide some information to those curious and confused.
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
#singlegirlproblems
Well now that Taylor so nicely put my sex encounter out in the open, I might as well explain why I'm depressed today....I feel like such a whore...
I haven't had sex in seven months. Seven. I stopped when I met this guy that I was really into. We've always had a flirtatious friendship. I've been wanting him to ask me out but he never did. I was at my party last night and I decided to text him to tell him Happy Valentine's Day. The conversation led to him asking me if I wanted to come over so he wouldn't have to spend Valentine's Day alone. Why the hell would I pass that up?
So I got to his house and we picked out a movie to watch [in his room]. At that point I kinda figured something was going to happen. We weren't cuddling unfortunately. I was just lying there, very stiff from being so nervous. He was laughing at me because of it. He then pulled the same thing one of my first boyfriends did on our first date - "I think I know something that will make you not so nervous"......he kissed me. Well one thing led to another, and yeah...
Don't get me wrong, I loved every second of it. I can honestly say that he was the best I ever had. I couldn't stand up for a long period of time because my legs were shaking so hard so he basically carried me to the car. He kissed me goodnight, and that was that. We never discussed if he had feelings for me or that I have feelings for him.
I was fine at first, but when I woke up this morning, I started freaking out. I don't want it to be awkward with him the next time I see him. I don't want to be just another girl he hooked up with. I think I just need to text him and tell him I don't want to see him again. I would rather end things now, than get hurt down the road.
I haven't had sex in seven months. Seven. I stopped when I met this guy that I was really into. We've always had a flirtatious friendship. I've been wanting him to ask me out but he never did. I was at my party last night and I decided to text him to tell him Happy Valentine's Day. The conversation led to him asking me if I wanted to come over so he wouldn't have to spend Valentine's Day alone. Why the hell would I pass that up?
So I got to his house and we picked out a movie to watch [in his room]. At that point I kinda figured something was going to happen. We weren't cuddling unfortunately. I was just lying there, very stiff from being so nervous. He was laughing at me because of it. He then pulled the same thing one of my first boyfriends did on our first date - "I think I know something that will make you not so nervous"......he kissed me. Well one thing led to another, and yeah...
Don't get me wrong, I loved every second of it. I can honestly say that he was the best I ever had. I couldn't stand up for a long period of time because my legs were shaking so hard so he basically carried me to the car. He kissed me goodnight, and that was that. We never discussed if he had feelings for me or that I have feelings for him.
I was fine at first, but when I woke up this morning, I started freaking out. I don't want it to be awkward with him the next time I see him. I don't want to be just another girl he hooked up with. I think I just need to text him and tell him I don't want to see him again. I would rather end things now, than get hurt down the road.
VDAY Part 2
Yesterday was epic! Princess Taylor here, if you couldn't already tell lol. So yesterday while Miss Amanda and Mistress K were waiting for their next session, the guy called and cancelled. At first they were really bummed about it, but then I made them an offer: Show me what it's like to be a sub. Granted they went extremely easy on me, I had a lot of fun. I'm definitely not a switch, or a sub...but being tied up by my beautiful girlfriend was so sensual and erotic, I'll definitely do it again. Here are some pictures from when I was tied up on my bed.
So yeah, awesome times :) After Miss Amanda cleaned me up, she and I went to a nice dinner, while Mistress K went to a Valentine's Day party in Akron.....AND.....she got laid for the first time in seven months! Maybe now she'll lighten up a bit on her punishments lol.
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Happy Valentine's Day
Well Miss Amanda & I just got done with a session. We have one more and then I'm off to my Valentine's Day Party in Akron. Wish me luck haha. I figured I would show off some of what we just did...
This small dicked loser definitely got his money's worth. CBT, mummification, & humilation. Gotta love our job =)
Monday, February 13, 2012
Moving Forward
Well, we started with the Topsites, and that's getting us some more views. We're also doing some studying and research. Up next on our list of interests? Hypnosis and cunt torture. Slowly but surely, we're getting there. Princess Tay & I have two Double Domme Sessions tomorrow. I'm pretty pumped. I spent the majority of tonight reading some ProDomme-bashing threads on the message board tonight. People are so closed-minded. I'm just glad there are still some decent people left...
As some of you have noticed, I posted a poll about creating an Images4Sale account. For the two of you who have already negatively answered, and for those of you who have yet to vote, I'd like to inform you that in the end the decision will be mine.
Amanda, Taylor, and myself would like to thank those of you who we no longer have to remind about sending in your weekly tributes. I finally got off my butt today and sorted everything out.
As some of you have noticed, I posted a poll about creating an Images4Sale account. For the two of you who have already negatively answered, and for those of you who have yet to vote, I'd like to inform you that in the end the decision will be mine.
Amanda, Taylor, and myself would like to thank those of you who we no longer have to remind about sending in your weekly tributes. I finally got off my butt today and sorted everything out.
Family Drama
It's not really drama...I just wish there was something I could do to help. Maybe if one of you has any knowledge of the law (as in law student or lawyer, not meaning you had to go to court or were in jail)....
The statute of limitation for medical malpractice is one year. One year. This is what every lawyer my grandma has talked to today has told her, and it's forcing her to break down and cry harder than I've ever seen her cry before...
In November of 2009, my grandma went into the hospital for horrible pains. They informed her that it was her sciatica and they put her in a local nursing home for therapy. The staff was very neglectful, and rarely came even when she pressed the little button thing. While there, they put her on too many painkillers. She didn't know who she was, where she was, or what was going on. They then put her on too many blood thinners. She bled out. She began throwing up blood. She was rushed back to the hospital where they pumped her stomach, and she was given 5 units of blood.
She didn't return home until the end of January 2010. Because of everything that happened at the nursing home, my grandma has bleeding ulcers, blood clots, and will never walk right again. I told her from the start that she should make a claim for malpractice, but the doctor who put her through this was her own doctor. Because my grandma is as kind-hearted as she is, she didn't want to put her doctor and her two young children through the court drama.
Her doctor told her that she would be back to full health in one year. Well it's 2012 and she's still having the same problems, if not more. I think this is stupid. I understand that there has to be some limit on how long you can wait to file a claim. But two years? They should allow that. This doctor should not be allowed to get away with what she did, especially if she's doing this with her other elderly patients.
I just wish I knew what to do. I mean, in my mind I want to be the superhero granddaughter who goes to the Supreme Court to get the law changed and get justice for her....but I'm just me.
::UPDATE:: "Why don't you help them out? I mean you claim to be getting so much money from your slaves, stop being a selfish brat." Yes, I get a decent amount of money from my subs & slaves, most of which is done through Amazon Gift Cards. What you're all over looking is the fact that the cash I get all goes towards paying for my education, my food, my clothes, my rent, my bills, and everything else.
The statute of limitation for medical malpractice is one year. One year. This is what every lawyer my grandma has talked to today has told her, and it's forcing her to break down and cry harder than I've ever seen her cry before...
In November of 2009, my grandma went into the hospital for horrible pains. They informed her that it was her sciatica and they put her in a local nursing home for therapy. The staff was very neglectful, and rarely came even when she pressed the little button thing. While there, they put her on too many painkillers. She didn't know who she was, where she was, or what was going on. They then put her on too many blood thinners. She bled out. She began throwing up blood. She was rushed back to the hospital where they pumped her stomach, and she was given 5 units of blood.
She didn't return home until the end of January 2010. Because of everything that happened at the nursing home, my grandma has bleeding ulcers, blood clots, and will never walk right again. I told her from the start that she should make a claim for malpractice, but the doctor who put her through this was her own doctor. Because my grandma is as kind-hearted as she is, she didn't want to put her doctor and her two young children through the court drama.
Her doctor told her that she would be back to full health in one year. Well it's 2012 and she's still having the same problems, if not more. I think this is stupid. I understand that there has to be some limit on how long you can wait to file a claim. But two years? They should allow that. This doctor should not be allowed to get away with what she did, especially if she's doing this with her other elderly patients.
I just wish I knew what to do. I mean, in my mind I want to be the superhero granddaughter who goes to the Supreme Court to get the law changed and get justice for her....but I'm just me.
::UPDATE:: "Why don't you help them out? I mean you claim to be getting so much money from your slaves, stop being a selfish brat." Yes, I get a decent amount of money from my subs & slaves, most of which is done through Amazon Gift Cards. What you're all over looking is the fact that the cash I get all goes towards paying for my education, my food, my clothes, my rent, my bills, and everything else.
Saturday, February 11, 2012
Things Are Changing
Today was a really good day. First I woke up to check my mail on CM and received the banner you now see at the top of the page. Then, I categorized each post so it's easy to search by category now. Then I found out that the guy I like, who was the purpose of me going to this Valentine's Day party, might be driving me instead of having one of my subs do it.
I then came up with this idea...I've seen a lot of Domme's sites offering certain items for different holidays. Well I'm thinking about doing Valentine's Day cards...For $20 (don't bitch about the price, I've seen other Dommes selling theirs for $500), I would mail you a Valentine's Day card with my cute signature, as well as a nice lip print with my favorite lip gloss. I need to know how many cards I need to buy so I can get them out, so let me know if you're interested =)
ALSO!!!! I'm slowly but surely adding some banners to the bottom of my blog. These are Top Site Banners. If you click on them, my ratings go up and I will get more trafic directed towards my page, which means a happier Mistress. So get to clicking, PLEASE =)
I then came up with this idea...I've seen a lot of Domme's sites offering certain items for different holidays. Well I'm thinking about doing Valentine's Day cards...For $20 (don't bitch about the price, I've seen other Dommes selling theirs for $500), I would mail you a Valentine's Day card with my cute signature, as well as a nice lip print with my favorite lip gloss. I need to know how many cards I need to buy so I can get them out, so let me know if you're interested =)
ALSO!!!! I'm slowly but surely adding some banners to the bottom of my blog. These are Top Site Banners. If you click on them, my ratings go up and I will get more trafic directed towards my page, which means a happier Mistress. So get to clicking, PLEASE =)
Friday, February 10, 2012
I'm Your Princess!
Well hi there :)
I guess it's my turn to tell you about me. My name is Taylor, obviously you are to address me as Princess Taylor (or Princess Tay). My username on Collar Me is PrincessTay93. Well, I'm 18. I'll be 19 in July. I live in Medina, have my whole life. My family means the world to me, and I treat my friends like family; so don't mess with anyone I know!
About me? Hmm. Well my favorite colors are pink and green. I love the scent of watermelon. I love getting dressed up and just being a girl. Yes, I do love being spoiled. Why do you think I'm a princess? Lol. Now for all those judgemental people that I've dealt with on Collar Me, fucking kiss my ass. "You're a Princess? So you work at Disney World?" No, I'm a princess. Meaning I'm my daddy's little girl. I've been spoiled my whole life, and growing up, "princess" was his nickname for me. I act like I'm sweet and innocent, but piss me off and I'll be your worst nightmare.
I have two brothers and a sister. I'm an Italian/Mexican mix and I'm proud of my heritage. I was born in raised in Ohio, so you haters can stop with your Green Card/immigration bullshit. I'm socially awkward and I'm not afraid to admit it. I was homeschooled my entire life. The only social experience I had before I graduated was going to one of my cousin's school dances. I was raised as a good girl, and I still am for the most part. I never smoked, drank, had sex, conformed, anything. My family is very strict and religious, so there's not much I'm able to do. Today, I'm still a virgin. The only conformist thing I've done was created a Facebook. I don't have a cell phone. I still don't smoke. I only drink when I'm out with Mistress K and Miss Amanda.
I met Mistress K in 2005. My neighbor had dared me to set up an account on a site called MyYearbook. First we were just talking about random stuff because she had made a post about being into anime. After a few months, we met in person and we completely hit it off. I consider her my sister. I met Miss Amanda last year, and I consider her a sister as well. I'm also dating her now so we're even closer. I didn't always like girls in that way. I was one of those silly girls who got engaged at a young age, I was 16. I thought I was in love. That is, until I found out he cheated on me with pretty much the entire cheer squad at his school. I had made a vow at that point to not date until after college. My feelings for girls started one night when I was hanging out with Miss Amanda and Mistress K. I already knew Amanda was a lesbian and I was open-minded to the idea. Kayla and I got drunk and ended up making out. While she didn't enjoy it, I did and I wanted more.
Amanda pretty much explained how we all got into the BDSM scene. I've been into it for about a year now. I came clean to Kayla about it when I had met up with a guy for an rt session by myself and almost got raped. She told me she was into BDSM too, introduced me to Collar Me, and took me under her wing. I'm actually enjoying what I'm doing in these sessions now.
The three of us are now looking for a place to live near Kayla's grandparents' house. Kayla made a post about a house about to go on the market across the street and we're all really excited, so if anyone would like to help out financially, it would be greatly appreciated. After all, getting this house would mean acquiring a live-in slave. It could be you :)
Any questions?
<3 Princess Taylor <3
I guess it's my turn to tell you about me. My name is Taylor, obviously you are to address me as Princess Taylor (or Princess Tay). My username on Collar Me is PrincessTay93. Well, I'm 18. I'll be 19 in July. I live in Medina, have my whole life. My family means the world to me, and I treat my friends like family; so don't mess with anyone I know!
About me? Hmm. Well my favorite colors are pink and green. I love the scent of watermelon. I love getting dressed up and just being a girl. Yes, I do love being spoiled. Why do you think I'm a princess? Lol. Now for all those judgemental people that I've dealt with on Collar Me, fucking kiss my ass. "You're a Princess? So you work at Disney World?" No, I'm a princess. Meaning I'm my daddy's little girl. I've been spoiled my whole life, and growing up, "princess" was his nickname for me. I act like I'm sweet and innocent, but piss me off and I'll be your worst nightmare.
I have two brothers and a sister. I'm an Italian/Mexican mix and I'm proud of my heritage. I was born in raised in Ohio, so you haters can stop with your Green Card/immigration bullshit. I'm socially awkward and I'm not afraid to admit it. I was homeschooled my entire life. The only social experience I had before I graduated was going to one of my cousin's school dances. I was raised as a good girl, and I still am for the most part. I never smoked, drank, had sex, conformed, anything. My family is very strict and religious, so there's not much I'm able to do. Today, I'm still a virgin. The only conformist thing I've done was created a Facebook. I don't have a cell phone. I still don't smoke. I only drink when I'm out with Mistress K and Miss Amanda.
I met Mistress K in 2005. My neighbor had dared me to set up an account on a site called MyYearbook. First we were just talking about random stuff because she had made a post about being into anime. After a few months, we met in person and we completely hit it off. I consider her my sister. I met Miss Amanda last year, and I consider her a sister as well. I'm also dating her now so we're even closer. I didn't always like girls in that way. I was one of those silly girls who got engaged at a young age, I was 16. I thought I was in love. That is, until I found out he cheated on me with pretty much the entire cheer squad at his school. I had made a vow at that point to not date until after college. My feelings for girls started one night when I was hanging out with Miss Amanda and Mistress K. I already knew Amanda was a lesbian and I was open-minded to the idea. Kayla and I got drunk and ended up making out. While she didn't enjoy it, I did and I wanted more.
Amanda pretty much explained how we all got into the BDSM scene. I've been into it for about a year now. I came clean to Kayla about it when I had met up with a guy for an rt session by myself and almost got raped. She told me she was into BDSM too, introduced me to Collar Me, and took me under her wing. I'm actually enjoying what I'm doing in these sessions now.
The three of us are now looking for a place to live near Kayla's grandparents' house. Kayla made a post about a house about to go on the market across the street and we're all really excited, so if anyone would like to help out financially, it would be greatly appreciated. After all, getting this house would mean acquiring a live-in slave. It could be you :)
Any questions?
<3 Princess Taylor <3
Greedy Bitches
Well I guess I'll no longer be posting usernames when talking about subs and the tribute board will be taken down. I've been getting told that Dommes are circling my blog like hawks, messaging my subs every time I praise them. Are you that pathetic that you can't get your own subs without stealing them from someone else? Wow, I feel sorry for you. Luckily my boys are loyal and won't go astray, just because you offer them something better. They stay with me not because of what I offer, but because of the way I treat them. You bitches treat them like dogs, who are more worthless than the dirt on the worthless ground you walk on. To me, my subs actually mean something. Without them, I wouldn't be where I am today. Hell, YOU wouldn't be where you are today without loyal subs. Get a grip, girls. Start treating your subs with respect and maybe you won't be running around like a chicken with it's head cut off, trying to steal subs from other Dommes because you're starting to feel worthless.
In other, non ranting news, I will include one picture from our Triple Domme Session yesterday. It was actually kind of fun. He wanted us to do some CBT, so we got out some clothespins from our "play bag" and messed around a bit. This was what we were able to do before he started begging us to stop:
Taylor will be posting her About Me later, so look forward to that. In the meantime, I'm off to do some homework while I watch the snow fall, so pretty =)
In other, non ranting news, I will include one picture from our Triple Domme Session yesterday. It was actually kind of fun. He wanted us to do some CBT, so we got out some clothespins from our "play bag" and messed around a bit. This was what we were able to do before he started begging us to stop:
Taylor will be posting her About Me later, so look forward to that. In the meantime, I'm off to do some homework while I watch the snow fall, so pretty =)
Thursday, February 9, 2012
Images4Sale
I'm thinking about making an account. Below I'll show some samples of what I'd be selling. I'm pretty much just posting this in hopes of getting a poll-type response to see who would actually purchase my images. In the future I'll do clips, but for right now it will be just pictures.
For the moment, I'll have 7 sets of photos:
For the moment, I'll have 7 sets of photos:
- Submissive Glam (Photoshoot) - 53 images
- Winter Princess (Photoshoot) - 15 images
- Dancing Queen (Photoshoot) - 22 images
- Summer Goddess (Photoshoot) - 15 images
- Fall Into Captivity (Photoshoot) - 57 images
- Vanilla Photography (My Photography Images) - 44 images
Here are some previews....
Not all of the images are vertical and not all of them are in black and white. So tell me what you think so I can decide if I want to open an account or not.
Miss Amanda
Hey guys, Miss Amanda (BlueDevilQueen) here. Within the next week Princess Taylor and I will be making some posts so the three of us are actually sharing the blog. Today I'm just going to be giving a little "About Me" spiel.
I turned 21 in September. I was born in Columbus, OH. I moved to Reynoldsburg with my aunt, uncle and little brother when my parents died when I was 7 years old. Because of my uncle's job, we had to move around a lot. I spent a lot of various months and years in Elyria, Strongsville, Columbia Station, and Olmsted Falls. I realized that girls were my forte during the middle of my freshman year, at a party where we played truth or dare. Guess what I was dared to do ^.^ I graduated in 2008 through a homeschooling program called ECOT.
At that point I moved to North Olmsted with my girlfriend at the time, who was a childhood friend from Reynoldsburg. I started taking classes online at Tri-C for education while I worked at Marcs, Walmart, and a bunch of other stupid places. In 2010, I was granted guardianship of my little brother and was given government assistance, as well as the long distance assistance from my aunt and uncle. It was then that I started working for a company in Berea.
In 2011, Mistress K started working for that company. Our friendship was instant. While hanging out with her, she introduced me to her friend Taylor. The three of us became inseparable. Things got rough in October when Mistress K went through an extreme experience of depression. She picked up everything and left, moving to Baltimore without really giving anyone a good reason. It was there where she was told she had 3 months to live. Princess Taylor and I were physically sick. We couldn't imagine life without our best friend.
Well one weekend when she had to come home for a photo shoot, Princess Taylor and I told her we were taking her to Dave and Busters, when in reality we were taking to her doctor who was right across the street. They ran some tests and decided she was fine. Things were somewhat awkward when she moved back in December. She automatically got into an unhealthy relationship with some guy and it self destructed so fast, it led her deeper into another round of depression.In the beginning of January, my girlfriend and I broke up. We had tried to work things out. Everyone knew that things were already rough when we all went out to Baltimore for Thanksgiving and we were barely talking. The house was hers, so Princess Taylor, being the good friend she is, begged her family to let my brother and I stay with them. Well, one thing led to another and now we're together and couldn't be happier.
Last month, the two of us decided we wanted our "sister" back. So we started hanging out more and now we're back to the way we were. One of the nights we hung out, we all got a little drunk. It was then we realized that we're all into the BDSM lifestyle. That's where we are now, except I'm backing out a bit.
I was all for this. I thought it was amazing to have the power. I thought helping my friends in this way was a way to bring us closer to each other. Well while all of this is working, I didn't count on all of the rude people on CollarMe. The thing that has me backing out the most is the drama. Princess Taylor posted this as her status on Facebook as this the other day and I completely agree with it - "Harass me all you want, but don't you dare bring my best friend and my girlfriend into your pathetic drama."
While I am still participating in sessions (we have another one later today), I won't be on CM as much. Drama is something I don't need in my life.
So that's me. I don't know what else you want to know, but if you do have questions, just send them to me on CM or to my email address (amanda.meridus@yahoo.com) and I'll try to answer them as quickly as I can =]
I turned 21 in September. I was born in Columbus, OH. I moved to Reynoldsburg with my aunt, uncle and little brother when my parents died when I was 7 years old. Because of my uncle's job, we had to move around a lot. I spent a lot of various months and years in Elyria, Strongsville, Columbia Station, and Olmsted Falls. I realized that girls were my forte during the middle of my freshman year, at a party where we played truth or dare. Guess what I was dared to do ^.^ I graduated in 2008 through a homeschooling program called ECOT.
At that point I moved to North Olmsted with my girlfriend at the time, who was a childhood friend from Reynoldsburg. I started taking classes online at Tri-C for education while I worked at Marcs, Walmart, and a bunch of other stupid places. In 2010, I was granted guardianship of my little brother and was given government assistance, as well as the long distance assistance from my aunt and uncle. It was then that I started working for a company in Berea.
In 2011, Mistress K started working for that company. Our friendship was instant. While hanging out with her, she introduced me to her friend Taylor. The three of us became inseparable. Things got rough in October when Mistress K went through an extreme experience of depression. She picked up everything and left, moving to Baltimore without really giving anyone a good reason. It was there where she was told she had 3 months to live. Princess Taylor and I were physically sick. We couldn't imagine life without our best friend.
Well one weekend when she had to come home for a photo shoot, Princess Taylor and I told her we were taking her to Dave and Busters, when in reality we were taking to her doctor who was right across the street. They ran some tests and decided she was fine. Things were somewhat awkward when she moved back in December. She automatically got into an unhealthy relationship with some guy and it self destructed so fast, it led her deeper into another round of depression.In the beginning of January, my girlfriend and I broke up. We had tried to work things out. Everyone knew that things were already rough when we all went out to Baltimore for Thanksgiving and we were barely talking. The house was hers, so Princess Taylor, being the good friend she is, begged her family to let my brother and I stay with them. Well, one thing led to another and now we're together and couldn't be happier.
Last month, the two of us decided we wanted our "sister" back. So we started hanging out more and now we're back to the way we were. One of the nights we hung out, we all got a little drunk. It was then we realized that we're all into the BDSM lifestyle. That's where we are now, except I'm backing out a bit.
I was all for this. I thought it was amazing to have the power. I thought helping my friends in this way was a way to bring us closer to each other. Well while all of this is working, I didn't count on all of the rude people on CollarMe. The thing that has me backing out the most is the drama. Princess Taylor posted this as her status on Facebook as this the other day and I completely agree with it - "Harass me all you want, but don't you dare bring my best friend and my girlfriend into your pathetic drama."
While I am still participating in sessions (we have another one later today), I won't be on CM as much. Drama is something I don't need in my life.
So that's me. I don't know what else you want to know, but if you do have questions, just send them to me on CM or to my email address (amanda.meridus@yahoo.com) and I'll try to answer them as quickly as I can =]
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Real Subs Don't Throw Tantrums
CM should have rules about maturity levels, because I'm sick of these so called men acting like two year olds.
denyneo, who isn't even one of MY subs, has been talking to me since November. I put up with all the messages he sent me, ignoring more than half of them because he was doing nothing but wasting my time. My favorite was when he told me I could have my birthday party at his house, but that he would have to ask his parents first XD How pathetic, to be his age and still live with his parents. Over and over and over again, he would ask for pictures of me in the babydoll he got me for Christmas. Despite me telling him each time that it probably wouldn't happen, he still kept it up. So this morning while I was blocking people, he was one of the people I blocked.
Instead of just handling it maturely, he went to the message board post, the one that got my accounts hacked and why I had to make a new account in the first place.
"She is now MistressK44028 and has two other "friends" with her, that all log on and off at the same time so huh? I'll admit I had spent way too much time (and thankfully not money) talking with her only to get banned by all "three" of them for just asking a simple question.".... We log on around the same times because we only troll the site when I go to their house XD And as for us blocking him, Taylor is the only one who has him blocked because she doesn't tolerate pointless conversations like I do.
So then of course OsideGirl had to get involved and then the post got 500 new views in 10 minutes. I messaged denyneo, telling him how disappointed I was in him, and of course he had to complain about that on the message boards as well. Apparently the three of us are fake men.....yes, which is exactly why the three of us offer to cam verify. And another thing about being a man suposedly? He had added me on Facebook and had matched with me on OKCupid...If I was a man with a chick's profile just trying to get money, why would I make an account on a dating site that few people have heard of? These people are stupid. And so then comes up "Get a job!" All three of us have jobs and go to school. You should probably get your facts straight.
And I have to laugh at these people who tell us to get jobs. Where are they? Spending all day, trolling the message boards to see who they can harass.
Luckily I was able to contact the support team and let them know what was going on. They thankfully removed the thread. Granted I know that won't stop the harassing messages, trolling my profile & blog, and get rid of the fakes, it's a least a step in the right direct.
PS. When in doubt, ask to cam verify with the person you're buying gifts for.
Well, I'm off to do a session with Amanda and some pathetic loser. This will be good...I need someone to take my aggression out on. Ha, someone should tell him we're fake and that we're just a figment of his imagination XD
denyneo, who isn't even one of MY subs, has been talking to me since November. I put up with all the messages he sent me, ignoring more than half of them because he was doing nothing but wasting my time. My favorite was when he told me I could have my birthday party at his house, but that he would have to ask his parents first XD How pathetic, to be his age and still live with his parents. Over and over and over again, he would ask for pictures of me in the babydoll he got me for Christmas. Despite me telling him each time that it probably wouldn't happen, he still kept it up. So this morning while I was blocking people, he was one of the people I blocked.
Instead of just handling it maturely, he went to the message board post, the one that got my accounts hacked and why I had to make a new account in the first place.
"She is now MistressK44028 and has two other "friends" with her, that all log on and off at the same time so huh? I'll admit I had spent way too much time (and thankfully not money) talking with her only to get banned by all "three" of them for just asking a simple question.".... We log on around the same times because we only troll the site when I go to their house XD And as for us blocking him, Taylor is the only one who has him blocked because she doesn't tolerate pointless conversations like I do.
So then of course OsideGirl had to get involved and then the post got 500 new views in 10 minutes. I messaged denyneo, telling him how disappointed I was in him, and of course he had to complain about that on the message boards as well. Apparently the three of us are fake men.....yes, which is exactly why the three of us offer to cam verify. And another thing about being a man suposedly? He had added me on Facebook and had matched with me on OKCupid...If I was a man with a chick's profile just trying to get money, why would I make an account on a dating site that few people have heard of? These people are stupid. And so then comes up "Get a job!" All three of us have jobs and go to school. You should probably get your facts straight.
And I have to laugh at these people who tell us to get jobs. Where are they? Spending all day, trolling the message boards to see who they can harass.
Luckily I was able to contact the support team and let them know what was going on. They thankfully removed the thread. Granted I know that won't stop the harassing messages, trolling my profile & blog, and get rid of the fakes, it's a least a step in the right direct.
PS. When in doubt, ask to cam verify with the person you're buying gifts for.
Well, I'm off to do a session with Amanda and some pathetic loser. This will be good...I need someone to take my aggression out on. Ha, someone should tell him we're fake and that we're just a figment of his imagination XD
Blocking Spree
I went on another blocking spree this morning. Unfortunately I had to block one of the subs whom I thought was going to be of great use to me (ohiosubdp). He had signed up to drive me to two of the events I have listed for my personal drivers. I was all excited. Well three days ago, I told him we needed to work out details, like what time he was picking me up etc. (Keep in mind the concert is tomorrow!). I hadn't heard from him. I was freaking out because I needed to find a different ride, and I'm still not sure how reliable this new ride will be.
He messaged me this morning saying nothing more than he had been sick with the flu and was hoping I was having a good day. First of all, no, I'm not having a good day since because of you, I don't know if I'll be going to this concert now. And second, having the flu does not render your incapable of responding to emails.
This is how you get yourself blocked.
He messaged me this morning saying nothing more than he had been sick with the flu and was hoping I was having a good day. First of all, no, I'm not having a good day since because of you, I don't know if I'll be going to this concert now. And second, having the flu does not render your incapable of responding to emails.
This is how you get yourself blocked.
Monday, February 6, 2012
Turn My Dream Into Reality
So I've always been asked why I can't do more RT Sessions or cam sessions, and my answer has always been that I live with my grandparents so that I can take care of them. Being a college student paying my own tuition, I was never able to afford my own place, and plus I couldn't because I couldn't be too far from my grandparents in case of an emergency....there is now a light at the end of the tunnel, but I'll need some help.
The woman who lived across the street from my grandparents passed away about a month ago, and her house is about to be put on the market. Her family practically gutted the house and remodeled it so it has modern designs (instead of crazy 70s color tile and carpet haha). Not only is this house ideal because of the location, but it also has a basement and a huge barn to the side of it. If I were to acquire the property, I might possibly turn the basement into another bedroom for a live-in slave, as well as turn the barn into my own dungeon/play room for sessions at all hours of the day.
Anyone care to help make this dream a reality?
The woman who lived across the street from my grandparents passed away about a month ago, and her house is about to be put on the market. Her family practically gutted the house and remodeled it so it has modern designs (instead of crazy 70s color tile and carpet haha). Not only is this house ideal because of the location, but it also has a basement and a huge barn to the side of it. If I were to acquire the property, I might possibly turn the basement into another bedroom for a live-in slave, as well as turn the barn into my own dungeon/play room for sessions at all hours of the day.
Anyone care to help make this dream a reality?
Sunday, February 5, 2012
Shopping!!
So I went shopping at Hot Topic today in search of some new band t-shirts. I walked away with a Lamb of God shirt and their last Whitechapel shirt. I also got a "Sexy & I Know It" shirt as well as.....
This skirt is so freaking adorable! ^_^... $75 later and I'm a happy camper lol. Now all I need is a pair of shoes and a top to go with it. I'm thinking these shoes...
As far as the top, I am freaking desperate to get this corset off of Etsy. It's about $122, and it's fucking UV reactive. That's perfect for all the raves and blacklight parties I go to. Someone please please PLEASE buy this for me.
Let's keep it kinky!
Friday, February 3, 2012
Attention Personal Drivers
Here is a list of where I need to go. I will keep this list updated so don't think I'll make new posts every time I become aware of an event.
Feb. 8 - Chewey's Speakeasy (Akron) -- 10pm-1am
Feb. 14 - Valentine's Day Party (Akron) -- 9pm-???
Feb. 16 - The Vortex (Akron) -- 6pm-???
Feb. 18 - The Foundry (Lakewood) -- 8pm-???
Mar. 10 - The Cove (Geneva On The Lake) -- 7:30pm-11:30pm
Mar. 18 - Peabody's (Cleveland) -- TBA
Apr. 6 - Sly Fox (North Olmsted) -- 8pm-2am
Jun. 9 - Peabody's (Cleveland) -- TBA
Let me know what events you can take me to and I'll cross it off the list.
Feb. 14 - Valentine's Day Party (Akron) -- 9pm-???
Feb. 16 - The Vortex (Akron) -- 6pm-???
Feb. 18 - The Foundry (Lakewood) -- 8pm-???
Mar. 10 - The Cove (Geneva On The Lake) -- 7:30pm-11:30pm
Mar. 18 - Peabody's (Cleveland) -- TBA
Apr. 6 - Sly Fox (North Olmsted) -- 8pm-2am
Jun. 9 - Peabody's (Cleveland) -- TBA
Let me know what events you can take me to and I'll cross it off the list.
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Blackmail
I'm reconsidering it. I used to view blackmail as just a quick and illegal way for FinDommes to make some extra cash...but as I view more and more websites, I'm starting to see that the consensual side to it is quite exciting. So who knows, if someone offers the right price, I might just send out my first Consensual Blackmail Application.
In the meantime, I owe you all two more pictures for the Picture Tribute Challenge...
In the meantime, I owe you all two more pictures for the Picture Tribute Challenge...
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
Fucking Read
I am so sick of these losers applying for my program and then quitting within the first week because they didn't read my profile or even the fucking application. This retard even told me he read my blog, yet the following conversation took place.
BeyondWeak37 - So maybe sometime we can talk about the levels of tribute you like and see if I might be of interest.
Mistress K - What do you mean?
BeyondWeak37 - Well I'm not sure how you are with your slaves, what you expect from them.
Mistress K - You filled out an application and read my blog, so you should already know what I expect.
BeyondWeak37 - I do, but I don't know the level of tributes.
Mistress K - Then you clearly did not read anything.
BeyondWeak37 - Hmmm I did, but ok maybe I am completely unsuited for you.
Mistress K - Fine. Goodbye.
BeyondWeak37 - I wish you well. I don't get why you find it so hard to answer a simple questions, but got it. Bye.
Mistress K - It states right in the application that you filled out and supposedly read, on my profile, and in my blog that the subs being trained are required to send a weekly tribute of a minimum of $20. It's not my fault you can't comprehend that. Goodbye.
Blocked! Fucking read, losers. If you don't understand something or you have questions, ask me BEFORE you send in your application.
BeyondWeak37 - So maybe sometime we can talk about the levels of tribute you like and see if I might be of interest.
Mistress K - What do you mean?
BeyondWeak37 - Well I'm not sure how you are with your slaves, what you expect from them.
Mistress K - You filled out an application and read my blog, so you should already know what I expect.
BeyondWeak37 - I do, but I don't know the level of tributes.
Mistress K - Then you clearly did not read anything.
BeyondWeak37 - Hmmm I did, but ok maybe I am completely unsuited for you.
Mistress K - Fine. Goodbye.
BeyondWeak37 - I wish you well. I don't get why you find it so hard to answer a simple questions, but got it. Bye.
Mistress K - It states right in the application that you filled out and supposedly read, on my profile, and in my blog that the subs being trained are required to send a weekly tribute of a minimum of $20. It's not my fault you can't comprehend that. Goodbye.
Blocked! Fucking read, losers. If you don't understand something or you have questions, ask me BEFORE you send in your application.
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