It's sad that I actually have to do a post on this. It will be short, since there's not many ways to fuck this up, but it is easy to do so.
When you make a commitment to your Domme [Mistress, I will be over to clean your house Thursday night], make sure you check your schedule. When you live 3 hours away, are working until 9pm, and cannot spend the night, obviously that's a problem. So, I'll give a second chance for you to reschedule.
Mistress, I will be over Monday at 1pm to clean your house....
DO NOT MESSAGE ME AT NOON TELLING ME THAT YOU FORGOT YOU HAD A CLASS AT 3!
Seriously, if you're in school, you should know your schedule, regardless if today is the first day of the quarter or not.
BEFORE you make a commitment to your Domme, make sure your schedule is clear and that there are no conflicts.
Oh! And btw, I bought a new collar today...I wonder who will be the first to get to have it on ;)
He wakes up and drives over to my house, arriving at noon. My boyfriend and I are laying on the couch, watching a movie. The servant looks at what cleaning supplies and food we have, and if it's not enough, drives to the store and buys what we need with his own money. When he gets back, he goes to the kitchen and makes us lunch. While we're eating, he puts the dogs outside on their chains so they won't be in the way. He goes down to the basement and starts cleaning up after the dogs. He comes back upstairs, grabs the laundry, and gets it done. Next is the kitchen. He scrubs the floors, washes the dishes & puts them away, and wipes down the stove. Next is the living room, where we are still relaxing. He picks up the garbage, and rearranges the furniture so he can sweep and mop until the floors are spotless. He then wipes down the tables and the tv and washes the windows. He goes back downstairs and puts the clothes in the dryer. He comes back up to clean the bathroom. He scours everything until it is spotless. He goes upstairs to the attic and sweeps everything out. When the clothes are done, he puts them nicely on our bed. We don't need our room or our roommate's room touched. Before he leaves, he makes us dinner. We praise him on his good job, and he leaves.
This is just a normal day at our house when one of the servants come to clean. For those who have the money/material, we seek someone to fence in our backyard, someone to help turn our basement into a dungeon, someone to help renovate the attic into an office/entertainment room, someone to replace the bedroom door, someone to install an air conditioner, etc.
If you ask (and are skilled with cooking), we will provide you with recipes for what we would like for lunch and dinner. There are also times when we will have you run errands for us - grocery shopping, drop something off at the post office, etc.
If you are interested in being one of our household servants, please contact me.
I apologize for not being on as much and not making any recent updates. I've been busy with so many things (work, homework, boyfriend), that I just haven't been able to set aside some time to breathe and work on my BDSM related things. I promise this will change. After next week (my boyfriend is currently in Michigan until Wednesday, so I'll need to spend some time with him when he gets back), I will put aside at least 7 hours a day to be on Collar Me and Yahoo and do the things I haven't been doing lately. Again, I apologize.
So, like the title says, I updated my wish list. I figured I would list some of the items that are top priority:
*HP Pavilion Laptop (located in my "Electronics & Home" list)
*Butterfly Beer Pong Table (located in my "Raves & Anime Conventions" list)
*Anything in my "Photography Studio" list
*Anything else in my "Raves & Anime Conventions" list
*Everything else.
Lastly, I'd like to take this time to thank the subs who have stuck with me. While I will be finishing your training, I am no longer offering the program to any more subs. I'm fed up with subs that come to me and throw me $20-$50 to show me they're serious and then they disappear after a few weeks. A hit & run like that is not true financial submission, and these subs will be quick to realize that when they're broke. It is more fulfilling to give large amounts to one Domme whom you think is deserving enough, rather than throwing small amounts to every Domme you come across.
I'm so sick of people telling me to get off CM, whether they think it's for my best interest or not. I've been talking to this guy for the past few days (if you check out my Blacklist, I'm sure you can figure out which idiot this is).... When he first messaged me, he wanted to pay for my dates and buy me a pair of shoes. I didn't hear anything up until about 10 minutes ago. I know I'm gonna regret saying this, but it's something I need to explain for the first part. To avoid a mass amount of messages, I sign into Yahoo as invisible. So I'm still able to receive messages, but not a lot of people know that...
Idiot: do you like high heels my mistress? [First of all, I'm not YOUR Mistress, you have no association with me besides telling me you want to pay for my dates]
Me: Yes.
Idiot: why do you be offline?
Me: When I switch to online I get blasted with messages.
Idiot: can I tell you something?
Me: Sure.
Idiot: you are so so so so so so so so pretty, it would be possible you canbe my girlfriend
Me: Thank you, but I'm taken.
Idiot: are you falled in love?
Me: Yes.
Idiot: maybe you will laugh at me, but, you are so tender. you full my heart of tenderness. I mean you are so sexy but so tender :)
Me: Thank you.
Idiot: it would be possible to ask you something?
Me: Sure.
Idiot: please leave cm
Me: Excuse me?
Idiot: please get out of cm
Me: No.
Idiot: princess, can't you see this is not your place?
Me: You can go fuck yourself. K thanks bye.
BLOCKED. I know my place. It's right here, beating and humilating pathetic losers who think they can tell me what to do regardless of their submissive status. I enjoy what I do, the subs I session with enjoy what I do...so what makes any of you idiots think that I'll listen when you tell me CM is not my place and that I should leave? Guess what, I'm not going anywhere.
I'm getting really tired of these "subs" who think they can insult Dommes and get away with it. The first message I got this morning from a "switch" who proved he's just a pathetic Dom. Messages from switches automatically go to my bulk folder on CM. If I choose to reply, I will be on edge and skeptical. This was the message I received...
"if you'd enjoy meeting a guy who's more driven and ambitious than you, hit me back."
BIG MISTAKE
"Lol sweetie, no one on this site could possibly have more drive and ambition than I do. You're talking to a girl that went from 218 pounds to 122, while going to college and working two jobs. Get your facts straight before you think you can dom a Domme."
I blocked him. A few minutes later, I get an email on my Yahoo account, with the subject title as "you are silly..."
"you made me work so much harder than necessary... oh well, i know you enjoy these games, and the fact that i had to make an effort to write you back. heres the message you blocked..... hahaha darling, i was commenting on your drive almost completely from that picture :) good to know we think along the same lines as far as whats important in character. my statement stands, however, i didn't offer to dom you. in fact, i only suggested a meeting between similar persons."
I ignored the message, thus proving I don't "enjoy these games." If I block you, it's not an open invitation to use Yahoo to harass me. My picture, a cam verification photo, proves I'm real, so I'm not sure how he thinks that drive and ambition have anything to do with it. Finally, if he had read my profile, he would know that I only meet up with my subs, not random idiots who think they can get away with anything. He and I are nothing alike, OBVIOUSLY.
I then got another message from a profile I then came to find out was the same idiot with a fake profile, once again commenting on my profile picture.
"U look like a bum with that sign"
LOL. Ok sweetheart. Sorry but I would rather look like a "bum" than have people question whether or not I'm real. Yes, I do cam verify besides the pic for people who I think are worth the effort. I replied back with a simple "I may look like a bum, but at least I'm real." I then blocked him. I will never understand why these "men" think it's clever to create fake profiles for when Dommes block them, it's pathetic.
Two more profiles added to the Blacklist.
I'm so excited because I finally got all the cosplay materials off of Amazon I needed. Now I just need to look elsewhere for the ceramic ears and pink contacts, which won't be hard. Now I just need to get the party supplies (blacklights, beer pong table, etc) so if anyone would like to spoil me, there's the perfect way. I'll also be making a bunch of updates to my Wish List, since I contacted Amazon and found out that the "purchased items" from my lists were not yet purchased, that someone had added them to their cart and clicked "save for later." Someone must be really pathetic that they have to click that on almost all my items just so no one can buy them for me. WTF is your problem? So I am now enforcing a new rule:
IF YOU PURCHASE SOMETHING OFF OF MY WISHLIST, PLEASE LET ME KNOW. Otherwise I will see it on my purchased list, think someone is just being stupid again, and re-add it to my list. I don't need to be receiving 10 pairs of the same shoes, so please be considerate and let me know!
After waiting and waiting, I've finally found someone who deserves my time and actually respects me for more than my body. I met him at a local bar about a month ago and I thought he was really cute. He bonded well with my grandma, too, which is a major plus. I thought I didn't have a chance after two weeks ago when this blonde girl was practically molesting him.
So Friday night, I was at the bar like usual, and I noticed him glancing at me from time to time like he usually does. His friend came over and started talking to me... "My friend thinks you're cute but he's really shy and doesn't have the balls to come over and tell you himself. Come and have a drink with us?" Well of course I did. We exchanged numbers and he told me that he was indeed attracted to me.
So yesterday we went to the bar again. I could tell he was getting more and more confident, which was good. As I was pulling out of the driveway, he texted me, asking if I wanted to come over and possibly spend the night. I took the risk and said yes. The night was perfect. We had a pillow fight, he held my hand and kissed my forehead, and we fell asleep. Then this morning, he cooked me breakfast. When I got home, he texted me...."Did you think I was gonna pull some funny stuff when we got in the bed?" I responded with "Kinda. I didn't really know what to expect...that was the first time I spent the night with someone in a long time."......."Honestly, if I would have tried, would you have went along with it?"......"Honestly, no. I mean, I just met you and I'm not the kind of girl that fucks around without a relationship involved."......"Good answer :)"
Granted I wish he would have gotten the courage to actually kiss me, I enjoyed the time we spent together and I can't wait to see what the future brings with him =)
So last night, I won the karaoke contest that's been going on for six weeks. $250. I didn't think I had a chance but I guess I underestimate myself.
So that covers the money, what about the drama? My ex fiance is being an idiot again. I'd say his name to warn all the girls that read this, but I don't need some bitch running her mouth to him and have him find out about this, it would just give him more ammo.
I'm posting this, even though I know it's what all the message board trolls wait for - something to laugh at because it shows what a failure I am. I don't think of my engagement ending as a failure...I got out of a toxic relationship with someone who wasn't and still isn't mentally stable. I won't post all the details. If you really want to know, I can give you the link to my vanilla blog.
Basically this idiot messages me once a month telling me how sorry he is for everything he ever said and did, and then begs for me back. When I tell him no, he starts talking shit about me on Facebook and other social networking sites. The latest is that he has befriended the girl who almost got me to kill myself, even though when we were together he trash talked her as much as she could. (ie. saying she's as loose as an old screen door).
Luckily Miss Amanda happens to be friends with this girl on Facebook, and noticed that he was referring to me as a dumb bitch because I apparently told him she was in the military. Why the fuck would I do that? No one I know would be that stupid. So now he's messaging me, calling me a dumb cunt and a psycho bitch, and even a dyke. I don't really care. Anyone who has seen his Facebook page knows that he likes to degrade women as much as possible when they call him out on his immaturity.
Sorry for the rant, I just needed to get that shit off my chest.
