Who's a Pay Piggy? You're a pay piggy. You:
1. Have no concept of the value of a real relationship.
2. Think being a "financial domme" or "demanding tribute" is a smart way to make a living.
3. Call yourself superior when you're a dime-store whore.
4. Insist that pro-dominance isn't prostitution, when not touching your clients only makes you a bad prostitute.
5. Are a morally bankrupt woman who couldn't be trusted with a dog, let alone a man.
6. Practice pro-dominance only because you're incapable of doing anything else.
7. Delude yourself that you're an "expert" in bdsm, as though a simpleton couldn't master the "techniques" involved in d/s.
8. Brag about having (blank) years of experience when your clients are only interested in whether your looks turn them on, and if you'll come through with the goods once they pay you.
9. Serve no higher function than to exploit the most pathetic dregs of society: your natural mates -- e.g., your clients.
10. Usually lack fashion sense, offer a crass, low-class vocabulary, and no sense of personal style.
Hey pay piggy -- you don't need a sub! You need therapy to remedy your ruined emotional state. Yes, so you can learn to love again. And be loved.
Remember: mixing business with pleasure is self=destructive.
Here's the real truth: no man who pays for dominance is worthy of dominating. No woman who seeks money to dominate is worth serving. Period.
Are you a real domme? A true female supremacist? A woman who understands that money is irrelevant and that true d/s is about inspiring devotion? If you fall into the 5% of women on this site who seek a true d/s RELATIONSHIP, then by all means, inquire. You'll be pleasantly surprised at the type of man you find behind this profile . . . .
P.S. -- What is it with Americans, especially my native New Yorkers -- how did you all become such greedy whores? Thank God for women from Europe and Australia, who still understand that yes, d/s mixed with love is possible.
And now for my rant. WHAT THE GODDAMN HELL DID I JUST READ? You just dedicated your entire profile to bashing a legitimate fetish, you ignorant moron. I do keyword searches on CollarMe for the word “financial.” Why? Not because I focus on the financial gain that I could receive from the D/s practice, but because I hide all profiles that bash financial domination. Why? Because people who bash a fetish aren’t worth my time. You don’t see me dedicating my profile to bashing fetishes I dislike. There’s a lot I dislike or don’t understand…but you don’t see me bashing the people that do have an interest in it.
Let me dissect this cretin's profile...
1. The term "real relationship" is subjective. What might be "real" to you might not be real to someone else. For instance, I consider a "real relationship" to be a long term D/s friendship with a sub. I would never be romantically involved with a sub.
2. I'd say 98% of FinDommes have day jobs. Hell, I have three that keep me so busy, I rarely even have time to do sessions anymore. You're not talking about FinDommes. You're talking about barely legal teens who found out they can get free stuff if they fake an assertive personality. Learn the difference.
3. Dommes are equal, whether one practices FinDom or not. The only people we are superior to are subs, and morons like you who think they know everything when they really haven't got a clue.
4. Pro-dominance is not prostitution. Is it prostitution when you give money to a burger joint and they give you food in return? No. Is it even prostitution when a woman goes on a date with her boyfriend and he pays for the date and they have sex that night? Not at all. Let's be more specific. Prostitution is engaging in a sexual activity with a person in exchange for money or gifts. Sexual activity, which as you even said, we aren't participating in. Is it sexual activity to have wax dripped on you? No. Is it sexual activity to have a ball gag shoved in your mouth while your Domme fire cups you? No. Please, once again, learn what you're talking about.
5. We can't be trusted with a dog, let alone a man? Well now you're just trying to pull things out of your highly fucked ass, aren't you? Really...that has nothing to do with anything. Morally bankrupt? Apparently you don't know many FinDommes....although with the way you complain about them, I can tell you've never even taken the chance to get to know them enough to realize that we (true FinDommes, not the money-grubbing teens I referred to earlier) are some of the most morally sound women on CollarMe.
6. We practice pro-dominance because we are incapable of doing anything else? Yes, you're so right. No wonder all of these pro-dommes are able to juggle day jobs, families and maintain their social lives, all while still dominating. We practice pro-dominance because we have a service to offer. We can give fulfillment to fantasies that can't be rectified through FemDom porn, all while still not having sex with our clients and building a reputable client-base.
7. You're right, you don't have to be an expert to know about D/s...although there are very few of us who claim to be experts because you really can't know every detail about every fetish because there are more and more fetishes being "born" every day. Here's where you're wrong: bringing a "simpleton" in to practice D/s is just plain dangerous. This is where you get wrongful death because a complete amateur thought she could pull off a sub's medical play fantasy.
8. The girls that brag are, surprise surprise, the money grubbing teens. "Oh I've been dominant since I was little." No, you were just a brat who threw tantrums to get your way. We have two kinds of clients - the kind who actually book sessions because they want to feel like they have no control, and the kind who give us money because they think we're pretty. Either way, we're getting extra spending cash for a new car or to go on vacation, so we don't really care. Subs that are into financial domination do not expect anything in return. You're thinking more along the lines of subs who buy custom content from us...and since pro-dominance is a business, if a sub buys a video we send them the video.
9. FinDommes do not exploit anyone. Half the time, we don't even have to do anything. We'll wake up one day and there will be a payment notification in our NiteFlirt box, without us being on the phone, being on cam, or doing a session with the sub who just decided, "Oh hey, I bet it would be a nice surprise for my Mistress to see a bunch of money in her account this morning."
10. We lack fashion sense/vocabulary/etc? You're kidding right? That's not just FinDommes. If you look at half of the women on CollarMe, you will see women who speak like they never finished high school, women who are overweight, women who aren't attractive, women whose clothing don't help their appearance, etc. This has nothing to do with FinDom so you're clearly just trying to pin every negative thing you can think of on the participants of a fetish that you don't understand.
And to respond to the rest of your profile - only women with a strong emotional state can survive being a FinDomme because we have to deal with shit like this on a daily basis. Imagine the number of suicides if we were emotionally unstable. And learn to love again? Oops I guess I better call off my wedding because I CLEARLY don't love my fiance. *eyeroll*. We do not seek money. We, along with the subs that come forward with this fetish, view FinDom as a form of TPE....but you don't seem to be able to grasp that. If you can get paid to do something you love? That's not mixing business with pleasure, that's having an amazing job which is the complete opposite of self-destructive.
And may I just say that with your comment "Thank God for women from Europe and Australia, who still understand that yes, d/s mixed with love is possible" you will never get the "real" relationship you seek, since I doubt you have the money to fly overseas constantly and you lack the personality traits it would take you to relocate....but that's right, you probably consider yourself to be an alpha sub and would have the audacity to ask your Domme to move to New York to be with you. And by the way, not only do you need to realize what the hell you're talking about, but you need to realize that FinDommes and Pro Dommes are not the same thing. Pro Dommes charge for sessions...FinDommes "wallet rape", monitor the sub's spending habits, etc. I respect freedom of speech, just be educated before you bash and blacklist an entire fetish....not to mention, with the exception of "no man who pays for dominance is worthy of dominating", you don't mention anything negative about the subs who give up their money....why is it just the Dommes who have to hear how terrible of people you think we are?
PS. My fiance is originally from New York and after seeing your profile, he's disgusted that such a piece of shit originated from the same location.
